Wednesday, December 19, 2012

In concern with humanity- being a girl is a crime!


One of the posters at the protest read- “Am I just a body to be used?”

Yes! I am talking about the same heinous act by 6 men, which has indeed turned out to be national news. Friends, family, relatives... you look around yourself and you’ll find all the male well-wishers of a girl asking the girl to dress properly, return back home well on time, be in contact via one means or the other and so hence and so forth. But, I wonder... in this democratic nation which has set equal rights for one and all; to me more specific, equal rights for both men and women, why is being a woman still considered to be an offense?

Yes! Exactly, you heard it right; an offense! Until now I used to proud on myself, on being a girl, a lovely daughter, mischievous sister and with dreams on my eyes of being a wonderful wife and finally an onus lady and a proud mother. Mother, a term which is connected to the nerves of each and every person on this Earth; for, of all the relations on earth, this is the only relation which is 9 months longer than the rest. A mother bears all the pain to give birth to a child. Today, after this act by the brutal beasts, the second thought after questioning the humanity that rose in my mind was “didn’t these people thought about their mother? A lady who bought them in this world and gave them lives?”

But Christ! With the advancement that a fraction of our society is under-going in this country, a larger fraction seems to be deteriorating. Instead of all the education and civilization measures that are being promoted, why isn’t our country really progressing on the other side of such heinous acts? Every single day, we come across news depicting a girl committing suicide because of being raped, or a girl being buried to death at the same hour of her birth. Is this really a country which has “Right to equality” mentioned in its constitution?

I can see all my male friends mourning over this news, updating their facebook status to support girls but, will this really help? Will this change the way our government looks at such cases? Will this change the way the police respond to the rape victims? Will this stop the people from pointing out the victim when she is out on the streets to live and enjoy her life yet again?

Many questions still revolving in my head and I can find no solution to them. Before stepping out of my home, I need to think twice. I cannot trust anybody. A person, who offers me a smile the next time, will only appear to be a savage. I never thought being a girl, I will have to be so careful and restrict myself from all the happiness and joy of this world! For you never know, who the next victim could be? It could be anybody... you, me, or your friend. After all, the girl who faced all this lately wasn’t informed that she’ll be the next target. Moreover, what still surprises me the most is, our government has not yet taken any strict action against those morons! Out of rage and ager, am sure if those brutes are handed over to people, they won’t be able to see the next minute of their lives, and they’ll be killed then and there. But, I agree this isn’t the solution for the forth coming series of activities.

I wonder if such a strong law can ever be enforced which actually assures more safety to the girls in this country. This incidence has surely stirred the nation. But, I doubt before all the rage and anger neutralizes and people start living normally and this cycle repeats again, will I get to see some change in the reforms?!!!

1 comment:

  1. After reading the entire blog i came to a point dat
    a special regulatory body should be made to track al dese morons whosoever commits dese type of acts and also it should be run by the ppl as a group.

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